Dear Pretending To Be Concerned

For a Friday you would probably prefer a pretty montage of photos but I need to get this off my chest.

People often assume that if you eat healthy or are vegan that you must be in a constant state of deprivation. No one could actually eat healthy and enjoy it right?  Ladies and gentlemen this is where you are sadly mistaken. Unfortunately (or fortunately) if you’re reading this blog I’m probably preaching to the converted, but maybe you might be able to relate or share some insight as to how to deal, as I have been coming accross this issue alot lately? Has anyone else?

Find image here

When I say no to birthday cake or lollies at work I’m often met with-why are you so restrictive with your diet? Why are you depriving yourself.

“Depriving” seems to be the buzz word at the moment, it was mentioned in my Women’s Health & Fitness interview and I have read numerous blog post over the last few months that go something along the lines of why deprive yourself, life’s too short not to eat cake!

Umm yeah it is – just stop eating crappy cake full and crappy ingredients and you can eat all the cake you want.

Healthy people without even trying to seem to insult others by their food choice. Sure I might blog about food but in “real life” I don’t question what anyone eats – if they ask me for my opinion I’ll give it but I would never volunteer it. However if I politely say no to a biscuit I’m often met with the “deprivation speech” concluded with well it tastes really good, your the one who is missing out! Great thanks so much.

 I eat mainly plant based whole foods and the truth is I don’t crave “traditional” junk food anymore. I’m not “depriving” myself because I no longer want these types of foods – real deprivation would be having to give up chocolate crackles or homemade chocolate!

There are so many amazing tasting and healthy foods out there that help your body, sure it takes a bit more creativity and organisation in the beginning but isn’t that half the fun?

So the next time someone politely declines your tim tam, just let it go…They may allergic, avoiding a particular ingredient, unable to eat it for religious reasons or simply not hungry. Just as you don’t like to be questioned over what you do and don’t eat, I’m sure neither does your friend!

Questions: Do you ever feel like you have to justify what you do and don’t eat? Any strategies for dealing with this?

What’s everyone getting up to this weekend? I’m going to an anti gravity yoga class tomorrow, I’ll let you know how I go…xx


    

Comments

Add a comment

Praise

Jess chunks things down so that even the most veggie-averse person can see how implementing small, simple steps can add up to a life of wholehearted health. Her focus on upping the self-nourishment factor through bite-size nuggets of encouragement will help you to make those changes that have seemed just out of reach for oh-so-long. She’ll help you to Get It Done!Jess LarsenSparrow + Sea
Working with Jess has been an amazing experience – She has helped me turn my dreams into my reality. She is very supportive and I always finish our coaching sessions feeling encouraged and motivated to achieve my goals! I would definitely recommend working with her to anyone who needs help sorting out their goals and life direction!Emily PorterHelp Me Healthy
Jessica’s ebook is full of common sense and practical advice that you can start to implement right now. It contains thought provoking questions to ask yourself and get to the core of what you need from you. By just focussing on even one task, it will start to have a flow on effect into other areas in a positive way. Jessica has a real knack for keeping it simple and focussing on what’s most important.Michelle Marie McGrathSacred Self
Over the last year, Jess has reached out to seek and spread her knowledge about health and in doing so has made a difference to many lives, including her own. Her zest for wellness is to be applauded.Shemin Sumar
Jess is an inspiration and a prime example of someone who is helping make the world a happier and healthier place. Her message is clear – live healthy simply – and through her holistic approach, motivating coaching sessions and delightful recipes she will offer you a wholesome, fresh perspective into how to change your life for the better.Rosie ReesLove Life Relationship Coaching
Jessica takes complex information and breaks it down, to make living a healthy life very simple and easy to understand. The way I think about food and myself will be forever changed by her influence.Ursula Williams-SchranzThe Aspirer
Jess’ enthusiasm and passion for good health oozes through everything she does. She literally cuts through all the B.S out there and delivers an approachable and fun outlook on health and wellness. Jess is truly an inspiration & mighty fine beacon of the wellness message.Nadine Lee OminskiNadine Lee Nutrition
Jessica never fails to inspire others with her positive outlook. She provides great advice and shows you how to move forward with an area of your life you are struggling with. She is a dedicated, passionate and inspirational women, and she is one women you certainly want in your life!
Meredith YoungYoung the Label

Check out my health food shop

Health Food Store

My recipe is featured in

ChocolateEbook

Get my free Health Coach Guide

IIN

My online courses

Jess Nazarali

Attend My events

Live Aspire Blog

Hot Topics

As Seen On

Health Coach Sydney
Gain access to members only lectures, invites to exclusive events + personally speak to Jess & get your wellness questions answered!
1
3
Copyright © 2012 Live Healthy Simply. All rights reserved. Sitemap